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The secret to what makes me a happy person

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If you’re looking for new self care ideas, you don’t need to look much further than your own two hands.

My husband likes to tease me about this thing I do with my hands. It’s something I don’t even realize I’m going most of the time. 

Often, while writing out e-mails, I gesture as if I’m taking talking to the person.

I constantly need to be doing something with my hands. 

hands making silver and pearl jewelry

It’s always been that way.

As a kid, I would play legos and fold origami while watching Jim Henson’s Muppet Babies on Saturday mornings. As a teenager, my class notes were full of doodles in the margins. (Come to think of that, I still do that.)

Now, I enjoy adult coloring pages, cooking, and of course, making handmade jewelry. 

For me, doing something with my hands is very calming and centering.

(Those are my hands!)

It’s only been in the past few years that I’ve come to acknowledge that creative energy is constantly coursing through my veins.

I often channel that creativity through my hands.

My mom was the first to point out how creative I was and made sure I was enrolled in art classes and piano lessons and had ample access to art materials.

As an adult, I sought out opportunities to make things with my hands. I took classes in beading, jewelry metalsmthing, and DIYing; ran a crafting group for several years; and taught myself how to crochet and relearned how to knit.

Since becoming a parent, I’ve come to realize just how important doing things with my hands and having creative outlets is to me.

My self care routine, I’ve come to realize, involves doing something with my hands. 

Back when I selling jewelry, I find the monthly trip to the local jewelry metalsmithing studio to be revitalizing. 

I would track of time when I’m there in a way I couldn’t during the week.

I have to force myself to drink water, eat lunch, even go to the restroom because I’m so immersed in what I was doing. I would return home on these days jubilant and giddy with excitement over my latest design, proudly sharing with my family what I had been working on all day.

 

Those days in the studio were like gold to me.

I left feeling energized, centered, and ready to conquer the upcoming week.

It was what I needed after a long week running my business and taking care of my children.

Now, I don’t necessarily get that much time to myself anymore to focus on doing creative things with my hands. However, I still recognize the benefits of it, even in smaller doses.

And that is the secret-sauce to my happiness: building in time for jewelry-making and other hands-on creative activities. 

As a mom, do you often feel like you put the needs of your family first, sacrificing the things that bring you joy? Learn what my secret is to being a happy and fulfilled mom, which in turn I feel makes me a better mom.

As I talk about in my book, The Busy Mom’s Guide to Creativity, I believe that making time for creative outlets is vita to our overall well-being.

As important as things like eating healthy, drinking water, and exercising. I see it in my children, and I feel it in myself. Digging deeper, I realized there are some amazing benefits fo making jewelry and other hands-on creative activities.

The emotional and mental benefits of doing creative activities such as JEWELRY-MAKING

It uses your hands

So much of what we do involves using devices. While clearly we use our hands and fingers to hold and manipulate them, it’s not the same as using your hands to actually make something with them.  Creating something with our hands can help decrease stress and relieve anxiety. (It’s no wonder adult color books are so popular!)

adult coloring pages with affirmations

It engages your senses

The scent of freshly sanded metal. The click of closing jump rings. The rich colors of beads. The grip of a pair of pliers grasped in our hands. The act of jewelry-making is connected deeply to most of our senses (I would not encourage you to taste your supplies or finished pieces.)

Our well-being is impacted by our senses, and noticing those senses can help us be more mindful and present, which has all types of mental and emotional benefits, including reducing anxiety and increasing our ability to sustain our attention. 

Allows you to enter that state of flow

While this comes with practice and knowing what you’re doing — rather than in the learning states — doing something creatives that you love allows you to enter “the zone,” or that state of flow where you’re fully involved and enjoying the process of doing something. 

It gives you an opportunity to learn

I personally love learning for the sake of learning. It takes the pressure off and allows you to focus on things that you’re interested in, rather than what someone else thinks you need to learn. Learning new skills, especially as we get older, also helps us to keep our brains sharp.

While making time to do something creative with our hands can feel like a challenge, it can be unbelievably beneficial when you do. 

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  1. Janine Huldie says

    March 9, 2016 at 6:28 am

    Bev, I totally need to have my hands occupied and have always since I was a young kid, too. And huge congrats on your book once again and hope you know just how much I have enjoyed it!!! ?

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 9, 2016 at 6:48 am

      Thank you so much, Janine!

      Reply
  2. Chris Carter says

    March 9, 2016 at 10:02 am

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE your book, Bev!! It is SO needed for all of us moms, just trying to find the space and time for ourselves. Buried underneath our busy lives, we must allow ourselves the freedom to pursuit our creative side. It IS such a nourishing outlet that fuels and feeds us. Thank you for writing this helpful guide to walk us through steps to do just that. 🙂

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:39 am

      Yes, it is so so true, Chris! Having a creative outlet makes me a better, happier, more engaged mom. I can’t imagine taking care of Eve without my jewelry & blogging!

      Reply
  3. Lauren B. says

    March 9, 2016 at 12:51 pm

    I really enjoyed this book.. you did such an awesome job!! I agree that me time is so important to being a happy mom!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:01 am

      Aw, thanks, Lauren!

      Reply
  4. Tamara Bowman says

    March 9, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    This is a big deal! Spoken by someone who has read your book twice already. You nailed it.
    And I do the same things with my hands!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:02 am

      Thanks so much, Tamara!
      Yay for hand talkers (and e-mail writers — I’m sure I do this when I blog too!)

      Reply
  5. Joanna says

    March 9, 2016 at 2:55 pm

    Yay!!! I am so excited for you and I just love this book:)

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:02 am

      Thank you, Joanna!

      Reply
  6. Theresa says

    March 9, 2016 at 6:34 pm

    That’s so awesome you made a book! I love the topic. Sounds very cool! Good luck with getting more people to hear about it.

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:02 am

      Thank you so much, Theresa!

      Reply
  7. Tamara Goyette says

    March 10, 2016 at 2:15 am

    Love this! Totally agree that having some sort of outlet is so important.

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 10, 2016 at 6:02 am

      Yes, I think it’s so important for our sanity 😉

      Reply
  8. CourtneyLynne Storms says

    March 10, 2016 at 9:46 am

    Omg how awesome gurlie!!!!! Such an important topic for all moms! I will schedule this to share either later tots you or tomorrow :):) good luck with the sales and hope everyone reads!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:02 am

      Thank you so much, CourtneyLynne!

      Reply
  9. Shann Eva says

    March 10, 2016 at 9:52 am

    Congrats on your book launch! So exciting! It sounds like a great book and is such an important idea. I definitely need an outlet after staying at home all week with the kids. I have been a dancer all my life, and went back to taking ballet classes as my “me time.” I love it!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:02 am

      That is awesome, Shann Eva! I love hearing stories like that 🙂

      Reply
  10. Jenny says

    March 10, 2016 at 10:32 am

    Congrats on the book launch! this looks like an awesome read. Can’t wait to share this with our followers 🙂

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:03 am

      Thank you so much, Jenny!

      Reply
  11. Jennifer Corter says

    March 11, 2016 at 10:24 am

    I am SO going to be checking out your book. It looks awesome!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:03 am

      Thanks, Jennifer! 🙂

      Reply
  12. Theresa A (Capri + 3) says

    March 11, 2016 at 11:44 am

    Congratulations on your book! That is super exciting. I think it is wonderful that you take the time to make jewelry. I made lots of jewelry pre-kids. You are inspiring me to take out my supplies!

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:03 am

      Woohoo, that makes me so happy to hear, Theresa!

      Reply
  13. Mrs.AOK says

    March 11, 2016 at 1:17 pm

    I feel centered when I create with my hands too. If I had bigger huevos I think I’d tattoo work flow on my fingers or hustle… 😀
    XOXO

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:03 am

      Ooh, that would be a cool tattoo!

      Reply
  14. DazzleWhileFrazzled says

    March 12, 2016 at 7:45 am

    Congrats on launching a book! I agree that as moms (said as a stay at home to three) that you need an outlet – whatever that is – for you to keep you going. Visiting from Saturday Sharefest.

    Reply
    • Bev F. says

      March 14, 2016 at 7:04 am

      Thank you so much!

      Reply
  15. Susan Harris says

    September 26, 2020 at 4:42 am

    Wow…. Beautiful post! Self care ideas is the great thing that one can do. As a woman I love jewelry, it enhance my beauty. Thank you!

    Reply

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